t's a shame that the airbrushed media of today has made women think that they are meant to be flawless. For the most part, having stretch marks is due to heredity. But, I think that if you're predisposed, there's nothing you can do about them but to accept them and love yourself as you are. There are far worse things to have to bear in life than stretch marks.
im not out here looking for "you to love me" or for you to "be with me"
i jus want someone i can have "fun" with that actually appreciates me for me
and appreciates our time spent together
which female wouldnt?
i just can't take part in that shallow act smh
all of us humans aren't saints but
i jus wanna make my soul a winner after all we are humans not robots
so narrow minded... its more to life than just bustin nuts
and i know i deserve better than and hour or two of me on my back
smh fucking DOG
1.Every time you see each other it’s only to have sex. So many women and men are having this type of relationship thinking that it’s more and it’s not. It’s Just Sex.
2.Only comes over at night. They call you around 10 pm or later asking if you can come over or if they can come over around midnight. A lot of people think “oh they are just really busy” no they are calling for a booty call. It’s Just Sex.
3. Doesn’t want to go out anywhere. Yes staying at home is nice sometimes but there is a whole world outside of the bedroom. It’s Just Sex
4.Never talks about family and friends. Think, do you even know if their parents are alive, do they have siblings. If you don’t know it might just be sex.
5.Doesn’t want to hear about your family and friends. Are you bummed out about your family and want to talk about it and they don’t want to hear about it. It could be just sex
6.Phone conversations or text messages are only in a sexual nature. Some relationships are like this but others are Just Sex.
7.You only meet at places where sex can occur. Only going to their house/apartment or vice verse might just be sex.
8.No sleepovers. They come over at midnight have sex and then around 2 am they want to go home or send you home. Oh yeah it’s just sex.
9.You don’t eat together. Ever hear that old saying “a couple that eats together stays together”.
10.They take a shower right after sex and send you on your way. Normally you want to rest a bit and maybe talk. When they all of a sudden they want you to leave it’s probably just sex.
11.Never talk about life outside the bedroom. There are so many other things going on that you could talk about.
12.You only have a cell phone or beeper number. It could be Just Sex
13.When you talk it’s only to setup a sex time. Ever call then and setup a time to meet and you end up having sex. It’s Just Sex.
14.They avoid you in public. You see them and you know they saw you and they turn away. It’s Just Sex.
15.Only spends a couple of hours with you. Only spend enough time with you to have sex. Then It’s Just Sex.
So a girl who think "I don’t deserve love" is subconsciously attracted to men who can’t meet her emotional needs.
“It doesn’t make her happy, but it’s comfortable because it’s familiar,”
It’s the emotional equivalent of the hamster wheel: You never get the guy, no matter how hard you work. But the thought that you might if you just hang on a little longer keeps you in the game.
Typical Signs of Love or Sex Addiction Include:
- Constantly seeking a sexual partner, new romance or significant other
- An inability or difficulty in being alone
- Consistently choosing partners who are abusive or emotionally unavailable
- Using sex, seduction and intrigue to "hook" or hold onto a partner
- Using sex or romantic intensity to tolerate difficult experiences or emotions
- Missing out on important family, career or social experiences in order to maintain a sexual high or romantic relationship
- When in a relationship, being detached or unhappy, when out of a relationship, feeling desperate and alone
- Avoiding sex or relationships for long periods of time to "solve the problem".
- An inability to leave unhealthy relationships despite repeated promises to self or others
- Returning to previously unmanageable or painful relationships despite promises to self or others
- Mistaking sexual experiences and romantic intensity for love
There are people in this world who really believe that this is the natural order of things: men have orgasms, and women have babies. This is a balance, a man is made happy for two minutes and a woman spends the next nine months serving as host to a life-threatening parasite, then the next eighteen years held legally, morally, and fiscally responsible for the health and well-being of that parasite ... while the man is free to wander off or stick around at his own time.
When something is missing in your life, it usually turns out to be someone.
Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Some stay for a while, leave footprints on our hearts, and we are never, ever the same.
Soul-mates are people who bring out the best in you. They are not perfect but are always perfect for you
Sometimes you have to get to know someone really well to realize you're really strangers.
Emotional Detachment
can mean two different things
In the first meaning, it refers to an inability to connect with others emotionally as well as a means of dealing with anxiety by preventing certain situations that trigger it; it is often described as "emotional numbing" or dissociation, Depersonalization or in its chronic form Depersonalization disorder.
In the second sense, it is a type of mental assertiveness that allows people to maintain their boundaries and psychic integrity when faced with the emotional demands of another person or group of persons. These senses are within the framework of psychology and academia, not those of everyone else in the world.
For a man to judge a woman because they had sex on the first date say’s very little about himself. Sin is sin, no matter how you look at it. The act was committed due to a lack of restraint and self control on both parts. Neither one is better than the other, nor can they escape judgment from God. She’s just a reflection of the man in their own reality. It’s called the laws of attraction. To put down the female by blaming and shaming her to think she’s promiscuous, fast and easy when in doubt it was consensual by both parties, then what does say about the man? He lacks the same morals and ethics as she does. So why does all the weight fall heavy on the woman? Double standards are terrible in America. I think it’s an easy way out for a man because he doesn’t have the proper skills to express what his true motives are… Therefore, make the girl feel like shit!!
Just be real or get rejected
My attention isn’t a prize that needs to be won
You either respect me or just be done
I have no time for foolishness and games
So just tell the truth or move out of my way
I have a life I have a purpose
You’re in all the way or else you’re not worth it
My time is precious I choose my friends wisely
But don’t try to be slick you can’t get nothing past me
I keep telling myself that I don’t miss you, and that I don’t love you, hoping someday I’ll believe.
I’m scared to lose you, and I don’t even have you.
We are the perfect couple; we’re just not in the perfect situation.
The saddest love is to love someone, to know that they still want you, but the circumstances don’t let you have them.
It’s good to miss someone sometimes, even if it hurts your heart
Discover the 90/10 Principle. It will change your life (at least the way you react to situations at work and at home…) What is this principle? 10% of life is made up of what happens to you. 90% of life is decided by how you react. What does this mean? We really have no control over 10% of what happens to us. We cannot stop the car from breaking down. The plane be late arriving, which throws our whole schedule off. A driver may cut us off in traffic. We have no control over this 10%. The other 90% is different. You determine the other 90%. How? By your reaction. You cannot control a red light, but you can control your reaction. Don’t let people fool you; YOUcan control how you react. Let’s use an example.
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